Recently I've had to defend my decision to move from Manhattan to Brooklyn, specifically The Upper West Side to Sunset Park. It was hard when I myself didn't even want to move to Brooklyn, I spoke about it as something I wasn't too excited about. I spoke about how amazing the Upper West Side was and how isolated I felt in Sunset Park without the energy of the city. One day I spoke about it with an average upper middle class couple who I met at a lunch event. After I explained that there was not much going on in Sunset Park, they nodded their head and said to me, "yeah, Sunset Park, we heard, has a lot of crime and is full of immigrants".
From that point on I said to myself (and this blog), I WILL NOT talk bad about the community I am now a part of and am representing. I will not misrepresent all the wonderful people that grew up here and love this community, and I will APPRECIATE every unique experience that I come across while living here!
After this jolt of social awareness, I started to appreciate so much more the gorgeous and unique views of Manhattan from Sunset Park. I started to look forward to my taco date nights with my Husband in places like Matamoros on 5th ave (instead of driving to nearby Park Slope), I started to welcome the quiet, and smile at the young Chinese and Mexican mothers and babies and finally, I created a reading list to enjoy my commute to work everyday. I'm three books into my list of titles and authors I wanted to read.
Oh yeah, and today Spanish Guy and I got our new dining room table delivered. It's gorgeous. And we decided to stay home tonight, a Saturday, on a holiday weekend, to enjoy each other and our new home. He's amazing and so is Sunset Park, Brooklyn!